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B.C. cemetery condemned for trashing mementos left by families

Langley municipal cemetery removed items left by families and put them in a pile
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Devon Franks was dismayed to see the pile of mementos and trinkets left by families had been stripped from gravesites at the Langley Lawn cemetery operated by the Township of Langley at 4393 208th St. in Brookswood. She and husband Robbie made the discovery during a visit on Friday, May 21. (Robbie Franks/Special to Langley Advance Times)

A surprise decision to remove mementos and trinkets from gravesites at the Langley Lawn Cemetery and dump them in a corner is being condemned as disrespectful by families of loved ones interred at the Township cemetery.

Robbie Franks and his wife, Devon Franks, made the discovery when they dropped by the cemetery at 4393 208th St. in Brookswood to visit his younger brother, Richard.

Franks said the family had left mementos on Richardѻýs gravesite, including some imitation cheeseburgers, Richardѻýs favourite meal, and a chain with a cross his sister had left.

ѻýEverything was taken,ѻý Franks said.

He and Devon found some of the items in a pile with mementos from other graves, but the chain and cross are missing.

ѻýMy sister is devastated,ѻý Franks said.

Franks called it ѻýthe most disrespectful thing I have ever seen in all my 43 years of being alive.ѻý

In the seven years that Richard has been interred at Langley Lawn, ѻýno one has ever touched anything,ѻý an angry Franks told Black Press.

He said the action was taken sometime between his previous visit on May 15 and the Friday.

Other families had similar reactions.

When Christina Skingsley saw an online post about the removals, she discovered that everything left on her fatherѻýs gravesite was gone, including a heart-shaped ornament she left at Christmas.

ѻýIt said he was the best dad ever, and I was glad to have him,ѻý Skingsley recalled.

ѻýIn 20-plus years (since her father was laid to rest), not once have they ever touched the trinkets we put there. Itѻýs always been the flowers (they remove).ѻý

On the day she went, other families were searching through the discarded items, trying to find what was removed, Skingsley said.

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ѻýThere were people there, crying, searching, going through the pile,ѻý Skingsley said.

Shirley Johannesson, whose father, Herbert Brent, mother Frances Brent, and sister Beverly Wright are at Langley Lawn, called it a ѻýpure violation of our sacred space.ѻý

ѻýMy dad has been there for 51 years, and this has never happened,ѻý Johannesson told the Langley Advance Times.

ѻýWe left some things. Theyѻýre all gone. Itѻýs all in a pile.ѻý

On Motherѻýs Day, all of the mementos on her family members gravesites were still in place, Johannesson said.

ѻýIf we had known that the Township had decided to discard them like garbage, we could have brought them home that day and kept them safe,ѻý Johannesson said.

ѻýItѻýs just so sad and heart breaking.ѻý

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In fact, family mementos have been removed from all three cemeteries operated by the Township ѻý Langley Lawn, Murrayville and Fort Langley ѻý according to an unsigned statement issued in response to a Black Press query.

It said ѻýa significant number of flowers, adornments, and decorations had accumulated over time, including several broken or deteriorated items, posing an increasingly challenging and unsafe condition for maintenance staff and the public.ѻý

Notices of the impending removal were put up at cemetery entrances and online, the statement claimed, and promised that staff were ѻýcommitted to the provision of additional, more detailed information, in advance of any future necessary removals.ѻý

ѻýWhen I go to pay my respects, Iѻým not looking for signs,ѻý Franks said.


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